Everyone has at least one. That group of people you feel most at home with. You can probably tell who they are because they are the ones the embrace your crazy. All the things that drive others nuts make them feel at home and comfortable. Now that you have those other crazy folks in your mind, think about all the folks who don’t fit that mold.
“Sure I’m crazy. But at least I’m your kind of crazy”
You see, I have been training for my first ever ½ marathon. What that means to those of you non-runners out there is that I spend a good deal of my Sunday mornings on my ‘long run’ of the week. It is the time when I am out logging between 8 to 14 miles at a time. There is no way I could do this on the treadmill. I would shoot myself but being outside on the road lets the scenery change and interact with all the other crazies that are out there doing the same thing. I have become a part of the ‘running tribe’. That is when I noticed a trend…..
Tribe members acknowledge each other. They encourage each other. They commiserate with each other.
Walkers (no, not that kind of ‘walker’ all you Walking Dead fans) always wave and acknowledge other walkers. I watched 4 different groups of cyclists acknowledge each other this morning alone. Every runner I came in contact with was quick with a smile/nod/wave. It was very encouraging…….but I also noticed a second trend.
Tribes do not acknowledge other tribes.
For example, have you ever noticed when one motorcycle rider passes another, they put out a quick waive? Happens almost every time. They are part of the same tribe and acknowledging each other. I actually think it is pretty cool but have you ever seen a motorcyclist waive at a monster truck driver? Or a mini-van? Or a sports car? Nope. Doesn’t happen.
The same thing happens in the fitness world. Of those walkers and cyclists I referenced above, only one group of cyclists acknowledge me and I had to wave first.
But what if we expanded our tribe?
What if our tribe was not cyclists or walkers or runners? What if our tribe was fitness enthusiasts? Think about it, that cyclist had the same struggle I did this morning getting out of a warm bed to put their training ahead of comfort. Those walkers are putting their health above their comfort just like the cyclists.
We live in a world where people live in the virtual and pay more attention to the screen in the palm of their hand than the actual world around them. Join me in the commitment to engage with all fitness enthusiasts you encounter. Give a wave, a nod or a good morning (if you can still carry a conversation) to everyone out pounding the pavement. The world will be a better place for it and it will expand your tribe.
And let’s face it, when the zombie apocalypse does hit and ‘walkers’ takes on a whole different meaning, we are going to need all the tribe members we can get.